Numerology: Master Number 11

The people that know me well then know that I am very spiritual. Always looking for answers and trying to find out more information about myself, I ran into numerology. You can click on this link to find out your Live Path number and see for yourself. I am a Master Number 11 which is the psychics number and not so great sometimes as it has a lot of negative traits.

After reading this I was astonished as it described me to the T. Here is what I found out about the Master Number 11:

You have the potential to be a source of inspiration and illumination for people.

You possess an inordinate amount of energy and intuition. There is so much going on in your psyche that you are often misunderstood early in life, making you shy and withdrawn. You have far more potential than you know. You galvanize every situation you enter. You inspire people, but without your conscious effort. Energy seems to flow through you without your controlling it. This gives you both power and sometimes emotional turmoil.

You are a channel for information between the higher and the lower, between the realm of the archetype and the relative world. Ideas, thoughts, understanding, and insight - all of these can come to you without your having to go through a rational thought process. There seems to be a bridge, or connection, between your conscious and unconscious realms, attuning you to a high level of intuition through which even psychic information can flow. All of this amounts to a great capacity for invention. Many inventors, artists, religious leaders, prophets, and leading figures in history have had the 11 prominent in their chart.

Because you are so highly charged, you experience the consequences of a two-edged sword. You possess great abilities, but indulge in much self-reflection and self- criticism. You often feel highly self-conscious. You are aware on some level that you stand out. Even when you try to blend with your environment, you often feel conspicuous, alien, and out-of-place.

You are blessed with a message, or a specific role to play in life. But you must develop yourself sufficiently to take full advantage of that opportunity. Until that time, your inner development takes precedence over your ability to materialize the great undertaking you were chosen to perform. Consequently, 11s seem to develop slowly, but they simply have more to accomplish in their evolution than the average person. Thus, your real success does not usually begin until maturity, between the ages of 35 and 45, when you have progressed further along your path.

You may often be frustrated, largely because you have extremely high expectations of yourself. But these expectations can be unrealistic, and can prevent you from accomplishing anything. You can be very impractical, envisioning a skyscraper when all that was necessary was a two-story house.

You may also suffer from bouts of confusion and lack of direction. This gives rise to loss of confidence and the onset of deep depression. The cause of these emotional problems is your lack of understanding of your own sensitivity and potential. Your desire to achieve some great ambition is enormous. However, a lack of confidence in your own ability to realize this dream may cause you much frustration. You sense the enormous potential you possess, which requires equally enormous confidence in your ability to materialize your dream. Confidence is the key that unlocks your potential.

On a strictly physical level, you must protect your nervous system, which is inordinately vulnerable to stress because of your acute sensitivity. Depression is often the result of long periods of stress that have gone unrelieved. Seek out peaceful and harmonious environments, relaxing music, and follow a healthful diet in order to restore balance and peace. As an 11 Life Path, you are a highly charged version of the 2 and possess many of the characteristics and talents of that number.

You can be extremely diplomatic and tactful. You are also patient and cooperative. You work well with groups and somehow find a way of creating harmony among diverse opinions. You enjoy music and poetry and require a harmonious environment. You have an eye for beauty and a fine sense of balance and rhythm.

You have healing capabilities, especially in such fields as massage, acupuncture, physical therapy, and counseling. You are a sensitive and passionate lover; your perceptiveness makes you aware of your partner's needs and desires, which you are able to fulfill with almost magical delicacy. However, when you feel you have been mistreated or jilted, you can react with devastating power, sometimes using personal criticisms vindictively.

You are a fine companion and possess a good sense of humor. When you have found your niche in life and begun to realize your true potential, your rewards will more than compensate for your trials earlier in life.

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Famous Life Path 11's
Al Gore, Bill Clinton, Colin Powell, Jackie Kennedy, Michael Jordan, Prince Charles, Robert Monroe, Ronald Reagan, Rose Kennedy, Rush Limbaugh, Terri Irwin, Tim McGraw

My View on "Dating Rules"

Some girls follow these rules like commandments but the reality is they are a bunch of bolloni. You need to be you and follow your heart even if sometimes you are a little psycho. These are some of my views on The Dating Rules:

1. Don’t call, text message or email someone you’ve just started seeing more than once a day unless they reply (or in the event of an emergency). Desperation and instability are major turnoffs.- So what happens when he calls you 10 times a day? It is ok for a guy to call you non-stop and God forbid to forget texting (as if we don’t have enough ways of communication) and all texting does is tell me that you are not interested in speaking with me. It is easy for the experts to say “Don’t Call” because they are not the ones waiting by the phone actually counting your hair, I got as far as 510,000, so instead call him and feel the vibe and if is not a good vibe then do what I taught myself to do, delete his number before you memorize it and move on because honey trust me when I say that there is nothing worse than being someone’s doormat when there are 100 more out there that want to make you they’re princess.
2. Don’t date the kind of people who’ve hurt you in the past. Many of us are attracted to people who are bad for us, but it’s important to break these patterns and seek out healthy relationships with matches who won’t demean you or make you feel bad about yourself in any way.- And how the hell am I supposed to know what kind of people they are if I don’t date them? I get it, we are all attracted to guys that have some of the same characteristics, but let me just say that these little wolves are getting smarter by the day and will make you believe that they are living the Robin Hood life until is too late and you are caught in their trap. I recently came out of a relationship that started like a walk in heaven. I actually dated him because he was different but he turned out to be the worst of them all because he was deceitful and that walk in heaven turned into a vacation in hell. Most men are liars by definition(sorry to all my guy friends out there LOVE YA) and there is no changing that. So is up to you my Dear Hot Inspector Gadgette to put those senses God gave you to good use and find out who they really are before is too late and your heart feels like this fool has been dancing the Macarena on it.

3. Don’t be late for a date. It’s just rude. If you have to change your plans, give the other person as much notice and consideration as possible. And always apologize.- This is one that I cannot control as I am the type of person that will be late to her own funeral. Plus guys like a little of mystery and you can always be fashionably late, but be sure to look like a movie star so that when he sees you walking thru that door doing the Tyra cat walk he can’t do anything but smile and thank all his lucky Stars that you are there with him and not out with the Pro-Ball Player that you’ve been casually dating for about a month.

4. Don’t lie to your date or about any aspect of your life, even if the truth isn’t as sexy or you’re worried they won’t like it. It would be awful to ruin a potentially life-changing relationship with your perfect match because of some silly lie you told early on to impress him or her.- Okay I do have to admit they got this one right. But hell people lie and especially when getting to know someone new. After many years of dating and sometimes trying to show a better version of myself, I discovered that this action can only backfire on as then when you find out the truth about them they have an excuse to throw it right back at you. I learned to just be myself for the most part. The good, the bad and the ugly as this is who you are and more than likely there will be tons of guys that will like you for just being you. If you don’t believe me then watch Bridgette Jone’s Diary.

5. Don’t be too available. We don’t mean you should play games, but if you’re free every night, you’re probably not taking care of yourself, pursuing your own interests and spending time with your friends — which means you’re probably not very interesting to talk to. People with full, exciting lives make the best dates.- This one is also a hard one for me because when I fall for someone I fall hard. Sometimes I wonder if staying single is the best for me. No drama, no waiting by the phone or checking if the phone has been dead or without a signal for the past 2 days. Men trick you by calling and texting you everyday and then when they break the pattern and you start to wonder they act as if you belong in a mental institution for confronting them about their behavior. MEN, if you lose interest in a girl just tell them and don’t keep her second guessing and then expect us to act like nothing is going on when you don’t call us in two weeks. You can’t have your cake and eat it too.

6. Don’t check out other people when you’re on a date. Ever. This is just tacky. You may think you are subtle, but while you’re scoping the cutie in the corner, your date will be heading for the door. Extend your partner the courtesy of concentrating solely on them while you’re with them.- Ha! I can’t help staring at others. God gave me eyes with the intention of using them and that is exactly what I intend to do. If you don’t approve then don’t date me. I might also look at the girl wearing the hot outfit that I will be wearing on my next date or at the fine guy at the bar. Don’t get me wrong, there is a line that should never be crossed and that is to be disrespectful about it and start a convo with the Hot guy in front of your date. You can always slip your number to him while your date isn’t looking. You never know if the other one is in fact your prince charming and like people say: “You always meet the one in random places”.

7. Don’t be rude or get drunk on a date. Courtesy and manners will get you everywhere.- And you are saying this to the girl who has fallen on her ass on her first date “literally”. There is nothing better than a nice shot of tequila to calm your nerves.

8. Don’t have sex on a first date. If you like someone and are interested in getting to know them better (and possibly having a relationship), sex on a first date will likely ruin everything. It’s much too soon, it’s not romantic and it communicates to the other person that you’re more interested in their physical characteristics than in finding out who they are.- I can’t answer this one because my father might read this. All I can say is that on an era that is ok to have cyber sex is not ok to have sex on a first date? Really? I wouldn’t do it but no one can judge what you do or not do with your sexual lifestyle.

A DRUNKEN CONVO..

Well after having another day of work and feeling like the world hates me, I decided to invite one of my closest friends over for dinner and a drink. Tamika is a six feet Jamaican women that shows nothing but charisma. She happens to be one of those friends has your back no matter what and enpowers nothing but women power. I sometimes ask myself why she chooses to hang out with me (seriously with all my drama sometimes I can’t even stand myself) but I guess that she sees the good in me and the fact that she will always have a good laugh at my expense. Plus she happens to be my neighbor and lives accross the street for me so I guess is also convenient as there is no travel time required for her visits.
We are sitting having a drink when all of the sudden a lightning hits close to where we are and I completely freak out. Let’s back track, minutes before I skipped a shower and just cleaned up with a wash clothe due to me being afraid to die stuck by a lightning during a shower and dying with bad hair. Damn it what’s wrong with wanting to go like a superstar and hair like the girls from those Pantene commercials. Well back to the story so we are sitting there and I am freaking out when we start to have a deep discussion as to different scenarios of being struck by a lightning and there is where it all began.
“So what happens if you are on a plane and a lightning hits the plane”? I ask Tamika puzzled as she used to sell advertising for an airplane magazine and knows all about planes. “Well Marla you get struck and the plane will probably go down because of mechanical malfunctions caused by the electrical hit”. I then start to think of all the different ways of jumping out of the plane with a parachute and probably landing in a tree somewhere exotic where I will be saved by some hot packed exotic men (preferably the Prince of whatever country we are in) and will live happily ever after. Being fed grapes and getting massages 12 hours out of a day. I guess that I must have been thinking about this aloud because Tamika was looking at me with the “Are you an idiot?” facial expression and says: “Well Marla there are no parachutes on airplanes only flotation devices”. Ok so this is when I lost it, “What the fuck are you talking about? There is no way in hell that airplanes don’t have parachutes. What the hell are you supposed to do with a flotation device if the plane is hitting land? The damn flight attendants don’t explain what to do in case you are crashing into land instead of water and that is false advertisement. They make it seem so easy, just pull on the damn cords and slide thru the emergency side doors as well as using the bottom of your seat as a flotation device. But what in the world happens when you are going down? They make it seem so easy that even I believed it was that easy. Ohh no big deal the plane can go down, but no biggie there is a flotation device and in case of an emergency I can always go ask the flight attendant. What the hell?”. In my opinion flight attendants are nothing but overpaid servers but they can even get that right as they only give you half of cup of soda and pretzels and to hell if you ask for a refill.
Tamika was then looking at me like I was foaming thru my mouth and told me to chill and calm down. To what I replied, “No Tammi screw that, next time I am in a plane and they finish explaining the rules I will raise my hand and yell “What the hell are you supposed to do in the event we are hitting land instead of water? Are we just supposed to just sit tight and wait for death to come for us because your crappy airline company can’t come up with a parachute/flotation device/small banana boat. I am paying $700.00 for a ticket and you can’t come up with that for our security? What the hell do I get for that a cup of ice with soda and pretzels? You can’t even serve peanuts anymore”.
Tammi looked at me and just said: “Marla you are a hot mess!” Well indeed I am.

Jumping the fence... Hitting the big 30..

Exactly 26 days left before I turn 29 and for the first time I am really not looking forward to my birthday. I guess the myth is true, the older you get the more afraid. Having all a single girl would want the dream job, dream apartment, a beautiful son and good looks, there is still something missing but for right now I am in a place in which I am learning ME.

This past year has been a great learning curve and for the first time had to take a hard look at myself and really look at the not so great aspects of myself in order to grow. I am getting there and when that BIG 3-0 rolls around there will be no stopping me. Besides, I am like fine wine, get better with age.